Still beautiful after all these years. |
My significant other does not share my opinion. She's been a good sport for a long time about my hobby, but that's mostly because she didn't really have to see me actually playing D&D and doing goblin voices. A couple of years ago, my gaming group temporarily played at our house and she was exposed to the hobby in it's true form. She did not play with us, though, and the group eventually disbanded due to time constraints and shifting priorities.
Now, almost four years later, I am starting up a new game, hesitantly dipping my toe back into the hobby with "Pathfinder," a third-party D20 game that is basically a better version of D&D 3.5, as I am still something of an edition snob and have little interest in D&D 4 or D&D Next. My goal is to get a good small group of four players to run a setting that I created myself several years ago for a previous D&D game. Looking back on my notes now, the setting looks a little clumsy, so my brother and I have been adapting and building on the skeleton of that world to make it more accessible, high-fantasy, and fun to play in.
Somehow, I have convinced my girlfriend to play. I'm not sure what magic I've wrought this time around, but she has actually made a character (claiming to help us "alpha test" some setting stuff my brother and I are devising) that I think she'll end up playing regularly. I'm pretty thrilled at the prospect of sharing this hobby with my partner - especially since she has decided to play a Kobold.
You walked into the wrong neighborhood, motherfucker. |
Just last night, we ran something of a prologue for her character (A Flames Mystery Oracle that currently has no gender and is named "Prek" or "Pre-Kay" alternatively) that was designed to get her familiar with the combat in D&D. Watching her scratch her brow to figure out what the hell was going on was entertaining, and she took to the "make-believe" aspects faster than I thought she might. She loves games like The Elder Scrolls and Fallout, so it's not as though this is unknown territory for her.
Not actually my girlfriend. My girlfriend is not a drawing. |
In the end, she managed to liberate the mine of its incredibly small group of goblin invaders (a pack? a horde? a murder? What is the plural?) and claim the whopping 25 gold bounty. She collected about a thousand experience and seemed to enjoy herself. I am hoping to get a game up and running quickly so she can experience party dynamics and have a couple of thugs between her and the gibbering hordes.
Because Shadowrun is awesome. |
I'm prepared to embarass myself beyond salvation telling epic tales of dwarven politics and draconian machinations because, frankly, I love to do so. It can be a bit of a time sink, I know, and I plan to set solid boundries with any group this time around (no more twice a week games that run until 2 am) and spend some time developing the world of The Coin once again. The setting we are building has a special place in my heart as the most detailed fantasy world I'd ever built for game -- So much so I've contemplated just writing novellas in it rather than gaming in it. I'll spare you the details for now (but not for long, I'm afraid) and focus primarily on the experience of coming back to game after a long absence.
You know, on relfection, I think she might have liked playing Shadowrun more, to be honest.